Tips for the commuting pagan by Michelle Santos So, your car resembles the dumpster in back of a food restaurant, your life consists mainly of working, sleeping, and eating, and you have more intimate relationship with your car than your significant other. Face it. You are commuter, a person who travels at least one hour, one way, to get to work. Since many pagans feeling affinity with nature, they often choose to live in the country and work in the city. This arrangement allows plenty of space for herb gardens, Sunrise walks, and outside rituals on weekend. During the week, however, the list full countryside turns into a never-ending stretch of highways, a loud cacophony of horns, and a bright twinkling of break lights as the country dwelling pagans strike into the city. Having commuted an hour and a half into Boston for work or school for many years, I understand the frustration, the anger, and the resentment of the commuter. You need the money, but you have no time for anything meaningful in your life. The following the compilation of all the tricks I have devised to make my commute more enjoyable. Breathe. Taking deep breaths when upset calms body, slows the heartbeat, and allows you to make more rational decisions. Even when you are not upset, consciously focus on your breathing. Not only would take your mind off the jerk in front of you obviously got his license at the local convenience store. But the regular breathing will center you and achieve in greater connection with your body. Open the window. If the weather allows, let fresh air filter through your lungs (minus all carbon monoxide spewing from the tail pipes of various cars and trucks, of course). When your car is stopped next to clump of trees, listened for the birds. Marvel at beauty of nature. She is the reason you in this two mile backup. Listen to tapes. Don't waste a valuable time by listening to the prepubescent babble over LocalTalk radio disc jockey. Instead, buy or borrow some books on tape. When you wanta change of subject, there are several other educational topics to choose from. Learn Spanish. Understand the periodic cable of elements. Any tape you choose allows you to do something constructive with your commuting time. Decorate the inside of your car. People decorate their homes for the holidays. You spend a lot of time in your car. Why not decorate your car for the holidays? Bring a bit of nature inside with ivy and holly for Yule and a mini sheets of wheat and dried flowers for Lughnasadh and Mabon. Welcome the spring with dyed eggs for Ostara and brightly colored ribbons with fresh flowers for Beltane. At a mini candle and honor the hearth goddess of your choice drinking Imbolc. But a traditional witches hat and a stuffed Black Cat in your car, along with pictures of your dead loved ones to celebrate Samhain. Remember the little people with a pendant or glossy picture of a gossamer fairy for Midsummer. Create or buy a protective talisman. Much of the stress of commuting comes from the other drivers on the road. Give yourself piece of mind and a protection of the Goddess and God with a talisman. Many pagan books have large craft sections that illustrate how to create such a talisman. (My favorite is the God's eye in Edain McCoy's The Sabbats: A New Approach to Living the Old Ways.) However, if you have no time or simply no talents, you can buy a talisman at any pagan or New Age store or catalog. (Be sure to cleanse and consecrate talisman, but not while your driving.) Say a prayer. At the end of the day, was you put the city behind you, at a point way you see and feel the comforting presence of nature, praise the Goddess and God for seeing you safely through another hectic commute. I personally believe that the best prayers are those that come directly from the heart, bypassing the brain, and have no words to them. However, you can chant a rhyme, sing a song, or form a prayer in celebration of nature and deity. I hope these hard won tips helped to make your commute a more pleasant experience while bringing you closer to the Goddess and God. They certainly helped me. The next time your stuck in a huge traffic jam, the scent of fresh flowers into your lungs, smile, and remind yourself that it's worth it.